Wednesday, March 9, 2011

If loving you is wrong, i don't want to be right

I went to see The Adjustment Bureau tonight and i LOVED the move >>>> here's a link to get a synopsishttp://movies.yahoo.com/movie/1810119644/info

Anyway, the movie promoted me to come to grips with my reality ....

I don't want to give the movie away so I'll speak in general terms .... Some people in our family nor friends will never approve of .... the person you love is married, the person you love is addicted to drugs, the person you love has kids, the person you love is the same sex as you, the person you love doesn't have a college degree, the person you love has put their hands on you, the person you love isn't a Christian, the person you love is in prison, the person you love was found on the Internet ... the list goes on and on of reasons why family/friends don't approve!

I'll never forget being at my cousin's funeral (after she was killed by her husband) and one of the first things Pastor Hill said was "We can't help who we love" and he was simply defending my cousin against people who ask "how does a woman still love a man after he has choked/beat/etc her?"  I agree with Pastor Hill ... I can't help who i love!

There are a lot of areas in life that i look at and judge people based on their decisions BUT one area that i truly try to NEVER judge is ... LOVE
Love is the STRONGEST emotion I have EVER encountered.  And to be told that you can't love someone because of circumstances or based on how other people feel, is unfair!!!  It puts love in a container AND if you know LOVE, like I know LOVE.... it's claustrophobic :)

So I blogged to say, I LOVE YOU!  My love for you defies gravity,  unmeasurable, undying, never wavering, unconditional .... LOVE!!!! and if loving you is wrong .... I DON'T WAN TO BE RIGHT!

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